Global Oneness Project through film "Expanding Identities" is something the new paradigm is pointing to. Check it out.www.globalonenessproject.org.

We are connected. I put out an elbow and push someone - sooner or later that elbow and push comes back to me. As I used to say when working with elementary children when they would do something unkind or act in isolated manner, "how would you feel if someone did that to you?" This question puts into child's process the act of empathizing with other, with sensing the relationship with other. Most often the child would say I wouldn't like it and their behavior would change, not because i told them to change, nor because i punished them etc, but because they would "know" the "felt sense" of their acts, their inner relations within themselves was not a "good" act, it didn't feel good when they were asked to focus on that.

What would you feel if someone did that to you? Our actions come from how we feel, and those feelings (felt senses) can inform us on how to find our way to more effective acts that help us form coherence within and without.